If you're experiencing feelings of self-hate, thinking of self-harm, or having suicidal thoughts, please reach out immediately for help:
Call 911 for Emergency Services
Call or text 988 to connect with the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, which offers 24-hour, confidential support for anyone in suicidal crisis or emotional distress.
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Definition: An intense and profound feeling of hostility, animosity, or aversion towards someone or something.
Key Aspects:
1. Involves a deep and enduring emotional intensity, often accompanied by a desire for harm or destruction towards the object of hatred.
2. Characterized by a strong emotional aversion or repulsion towards the person, group, or thing that is hated.
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It sounds like you’re dealing with an intense feeling right now - and that’s okay! Remember, ALL YOUR EMOTIONS ARE VALID. What matters is what you do with them.
The goal is not to oppress hateful feelings but to release them without harming ourselves or others
That’s where emotional regulation techniques come in. Using emotional regulation techniques when you’re feeling hateful helps you pause, reflect, and shift out of intense emotions that might otherwise lead to regretful words or actions. By taking a moment to manage these feelings, you can respond with greater awareness and protect both your own peace and your relationships with others.
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