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Definition: Feelings of desire for something someone else has
Key Aspects:
Rooted in feelings of inadequacy or comparison. Often involves comparing oneself to others and feelings of discontent or dissatisfaction with one's own situation.
May include feelings of resentment towards the person who has what is desired.
Attention is focused on wanting what others have (e.g., wealth, status, success).Example: Wishing you had your colleague’s promotion or someone else’s talent.
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It sounds like you’re dealing with an intense feeling right now - and that’s okay! Remember, ALL YOUR EMOTIONS ARE VALID. What matters is what you do with them.
That’s where emotional regulation techniques come in. Using emotional regulation techniques when you’re feeling envious helps you pause, reflect, and shift out of intense emotions that might otherwise lead to regretful words or actions. By taking a moment to manage these feelings, you can respond with greater awareness and protect both your own peace and your relationships with others.
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